Happy End of School Year…
I have learned so much the last few years and this year especially… As Mom’s Our heart is to protect our children and Our hearts are to love well. We cannot put our guards down, we must listen to our gut and let God guide our steps. Even if we put our children in a Chirstian School environment. Paul’s warning about preparing for the evil day reveals that everyone will face such times. So just as we put on our seatbelt to survive that one terrible collision that we know could happen since it happens to others, we need to put on the armor of God. Too many of God’s children have been seriously impacted or even destroy for us to ignore these warnings. In wrestling with the spiritual hosts of wickedness and with the devil seeking whom he may devour, it is folly to simply enjoy the sunshine and warmth of today and be unprepared for the evil day that God assures us will surely come.

In the realm of educational leadership, the character and integrity of school leaders play a crucial role in shaping the environment and the educational outcomes of the institutions they govern. When examining leadership within Christian schools, the alignment of values becomes even more critical, as these institutions not only aim to provide academic knowledge but also seek to impart religious and moral teachings. However, challenges can
arise when leaders exhibit narcissistic traits, which can significantly impact the school’s ethos and effectiveness.

Narcissistic leadership in a Christian school setting can manifest as a leader’s excessive focus on self, a need for admiration, and a lack of empathy for others. This can be particularly contradictory in a Christian context, where values like humility, service, and compassion are central. Such leaders might prioritize their personal vision or recognition over the collective needs of the school, potentially leading to decisions that favor their interests and neglect the broader educational or spiritual objectives. This misalignment can create a dissonant environment, where the foundational principles of the institution are compromised, affecting both staff morale and student development Jesus warned us that “false Christs and false prophets” will come and will attempt to deceive even God’s elect (Matthew 24:23-27; see also 2 Peter 3:3 and Jude 17-18). The best way to guard yourself against falsehood and false teachers is to know the truth. To spot a counterfeit, study the real thing. Any believer who “correctly handles the word of truth” (2 Timothy 2:15) and who makes a careful study of the Bible can identify false doctrine. For example, a believer who has read the activities of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit in Matthew 3:16-17 will immediately question any doctrine that denies the Trinity. Therefore, step one is to study the Bible and judge all teaching by what the Scripture says.

Some of us simply refuse to judge situations because we are afraid of conflict and therefore aren’t willing to stand up for anything. This is often simply evidence of unresolved sinful tendencies in our own lives that we are harboring, rather than solving. We would rather keep everyone happy (mostly ourselves) and live in ignorant sinful “bliss”.
Ephesians 5:11 “Take no part in the unfruitful works of darkness, but instead expose them.”

You can go from criticized to celebrated in one lifetime, but there is a messy middle. I’m speaking to the messy middle.  The messy middle will make you feel like you’re crazy. That messy middle makes you feel like you made the wrong decision. That messy middle will make you feel like you should turn back. That messy middle will make you feel like you should listen to their criticisms. That messy middle will make you feel like they’re valid, and you’re not valid. 

Instead of standing up for the Lord and His Word, too often we give in to “go along to get along” mentality.  All of us must admit that times of conflict and confrontation are not at always enjoyable.  Yet, when we compromise the truth or remain silent on biblical issues, are we doing anyone a favor?

If we compromise God’s truth or we suddenly become the Lord’s silent partner on biblical issues, who will give an account for those who are lost by our lack of courage?  The Bible teaches both parties will give an account on the day of Judgment. The Bible pleads with you to stand up for the truth of God’s word and be a person of courage!